Finding Your People During Second Semester
You might have spent your first semester focused on figuring things out and just adjusting
to life as a college student. If you started your second semester and realized you
didn't get involved on campus yet the way you had hoped, you are not alone! Because
it takes time to really get adjusted to college life and academics, this is totally
normal. The good new is that your second semester is the perfect time to lean in to
opportunities to get engaged and connected and find your people.
Here's some tips to get connected and find your people this semester:
Start with what you know about yourself. Now that you've got a better sense of your interests, a clearer idea of your time and energy, and a more realistic routine, use that knowledge and ask yourself:
- What do I wish I had tried last semester, but didn't?
- What are my interests, and is there a student organization associated with that?
- What kind of people do I want to surround myself with?
Start small. Make it a goal to attend one major campus event or event in your residential hall and one or two student organization meetings you might be interested in. Just because you go to a student organization interest meeting doesn't mean you are committed to it. You can go, try it out, and then decide if you want to go back or try something new. If you don't know where to start, think about what your interests are or even with an organization associated with your academic college or major!
Find community in everyday spaces. While connection is likely to happen through joining organizations due to immediate
connection through similar interests, that isn't the only place you can build connections.
Think about your routines and where you might naturally see the same people: your
classes, the dining hall, the gym, your residential hall. Show up with an open mind
and don't be afraid to take initiative. Ask to study together, grab coffee after class,
workout together, etc. Remember that all friendships have to start somewhere and someone
has to take initiative to form the connection!
Your people are out there! And whether you are naturally outgoing and extroverted or more introverted, there are people on campus who will support you and help you feel at home, and chances are they are just one small conversation away! This semester is your chance to reach out, show up, and connect in the ways that feel right to you.